I go back & forth on things. A lot of my family is intensely private and they would flip if I wrote too much personal stuff. And for my sons, well, I worry about later on. I don’t want to embarrass them or shame them. It’s tough, because I need to talk about my experiences as a mother — like with our son’s speech problems — but don’t want it to come back to harm him later. I still haven’t figured out the best course.