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Gratitude

“It’s really not all that bad.” That’s what I — and my husband — keep telling myself. I love the time I spend with my son, even as I feel guilty that it’s not enough… or especially not enough quality over quantity.

But then I lie in bed in the morning, after my son is up and we’re both snuggled up watching a cartoon or two, and I realize how good I have it. There’s no rushing around in the morning to get him to daycare and me to work. I doze a little while he plays with his cars and sips his milk. I smile as he runs his cars all over my head and shoulders, making these new little “vroom vroom” noises.

And I realize all of this, even as we’re terribly short on money, when I am able to get out of my own head. That’s not easy when you work from home and don’t really get out much. And yet, the internet helps me there, too. I chat with people on twitter when I take breaks. I read blogs and get to see how my internet friends are doing.

I’ve even made new local friends. That’s probably the biggest thing that the ‘net has brought me. As I think I’ve mentioned before, several of my closest friends have moved in the last few years. Since I don’t work outside the home any longer, it has been much harder to find new people to hang out with. But then I went to a couple of events that I found out about on Twitter. And I started meeting other moms.

From there, I found out about events through sdGNO (San Diego Girl’s Night Out) and sdIRL (San Diego In Real Life). And wouldn’t you know it? I have made a bunch of new friends and connected with some old ones, too. (Of course, that totally doesn’t include everyone, but you can see lists of people I’ve met via some twitter lists.)

Just getting to hang out with many cool people, get our kids together for playdates, and get out of the darn house has been making a big difference for me. It’s slowly getting better, the more I push myself to go do cool things.

As long as I can keep reminding myself not to think to hard about all that I’m not doing and not getting accomplished — and concentrate on the good — I think it’ll be okay.

Nah, I’m sure of it.

I’d also like to thank the kind person who nominated me for a “Best in Lifestyle” award from the San Diego Social Media Awards (#influenceSD). I absolutely wasn’t expecting it and no matter where I wind up, I’m honored to be in a group with so many of my friends. (PS – you can vote for me here, if you are so inclined.)

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4 Responses
  1. Suzette (6 comments.) says:

    I know what you mean! The Internet is kind of a safety net of friends, too. I’m lucky to have made new friends like you on all these Social Media Platforms (ooh, I sound so techie!), andwho share similar interests like blogging about family and other cool stuff we get to do together.
    Congrats on your nomination, too!
    .-= Suzette´s last blog ..I Wasn’t Smarter Than a Five Year Old =-.

    • becky says:

      Yes, it has been such a big help to meet so many amazing women! And to think that several came from Twitter. It is awesome, no?

      Thanks for stopping by, Suzette. Can’t wait to see you at the next gathering! :)

      Re: the nomination. I know I’m in no danger of winning, but it’s fun nonetheless.

  2. Mama Mary (6 comments.) says:

    I’m happy to be one of those friends you mention above and I too am thankful for the network of friends we have here in SD. Oh, and I voted for you! See you tomorrow night! :-)
    .-= Mama Mary´s last blog ..open letter to my readers =-.

    • becky says:

      Thanks for the vote! I voted for you, too, of course.

      All of these new friends & social activities have been a life saver. Really. I need to get out of my head to keep depression at bay. Lots of stuff to keep me busy helps SO MUCH.