playa?

not playa, as in beach, but slang for player.
sometimes it’s hard to know whether you’re being played, or whether the other person really believes what he/she is telling you. and when you’re too close to the situation, well, your ability to discern that is impaired.
and that, my friends, sucks.
so, is that truly their reality? or do they think they can get by with something? i think i will just have to continue being suspicious. and i hate that.